Rolling with the Punches

I am not even going to try and make excuses for me not blogging in so long because words cannot even begin to explain the laziness i have shown in this particular area of my life, not that i haven't been lazy in others too...
But i am sorry.. i have had a lot to say but really could not put fingers to keyboard.

This past week has been quite unbelievable and i'm not sure if it's in a completely good or bad way. It was meant to be a good week as it ends with the promise of the christmas holiday but no, things never go the way you plan them to, do they?

And now as i  reflect on the events that happened, i realise that we should have seen this coming..but what i realised is things go bad, the unexpected happen and when it does we react in different ways. We can question the choices we made, we can blame the people who caused the problems, we can be sad and depressed or we can accept it and roll with the punches. The last option may not be the easiest or most likely reaction we get but in my opinion it is the best thing one can do at that point in his/her life. Many things may be going wrong all at the same time but you have to recognise that c'est la vie and find a solution no matter how much that solution cost you and in my case it cost a LOT but what do you know? i'm still standing and even though i'm not doing it now, i am sure i'd laugh about it in a few eons, i kid, i joke..maybe years (hehe).

I may have got it easier than your case, you may think, i don't know but it has taught me to accept outcomes and undesirable events for what they are, stories in my history.

Oh no..not the L word..

Kk..i really should blog more often..my friend keeps encouraging me so i wont let her down :)
I have soo much to talk about...but right now it'll be of love.....kk,im sure ppl think its really sappy and stuff but the truth is it is sappy but it wouldnt be love now would it,if it werent sappy, gooey and generally disgusting and annoying if you were not in it, now would it?..
My views on love at this stage of my life is really distorted you should know before i go any further cos im kind of pessimistic about it but deep down i know it exists and its wonderful nd would last forever and would be the most fantastic feeling ever..
I've been wondering recently whether its the same feeling for everyone...how can i explain..ok i have an analogy..like a headache..when ur head hurts obviously you have a headache but does it feel exactly the same when you know you have to go and get ur panadol abi 'alabukun' (#inBankyW'svoice)..like would someone might feel pounding, another sharp pain from one side to the other or someone else a combination of both..i dnt know, so would the feeling of love be the same?? guess ill never know since nobody seems particularly able to define it or explain..then again you cant really describe felings can you?...ok, im drifting but hopefully you get what i mean here
I dont know why ppl are so quick to fall in love..as far as im concerned if u have fallen in love more than once you havent fallen in love...if u are under the age of 21 you're chances of being in love (because i don't believe you can fall out of it) is like 2% cos i just think we are too selfish at this stage in our lives really..and i believe if ur love doesnt agreee with that 1 corinthians 13 verse..it isnt true..endof
..another thing i dont get is why people are in such a hurry to get married these days..ok im generalising but a few ppl close to me not older than 24 are already married..im like whoa,calm down..its nt like they are pregnant or anything o!being married is for life..why not enjoy being single before all those responsibilities come and some boys are really bastards..so i heard of this guy..oh wait sorry maybe another blog,it isnt on love..it is jor..anyhw, sha the guy cos the babe's parents said they shd wait like a year he said he cant marry her..seriously though..wtf?!if u claim ure in love isnt going to end after one year..seriously come on!!i shall rant about my views on nigerians and marriage later cos if i start...

anyhow..im really obsessed with love but right now i can wait for it to happen cos i know its narcissistic and all but im enjoying (apart from God) being the centre of my world..lol
in this blog im talking about-for lack of  a better word- sexual love but do spread platonic love around to every1 :) <3 <3

Boy I like..

Recently in church we were talking about relationships and reasons to enter them or when you should, u knw those kinds of meetings..and i've been thinking
I wouldnt even lie,I was guilty of some of the things we were told was wrong or my thought patterns were in the wrong..
I may blame it on the general idea that boys are bastards but at my age i strongly believe in not so serious but light,fun relationships not that i have anything against people in very mature relationships, I just think it works better that way..i think youth is  very selfish period of our lives so most decisions we make favor us eventually, directly or indirectly and not that we would consider anyone else but in doing so we make sure we are satisfied..I think we are too 'hormonal' to say okay we won't do anything so if we do, i think a lot of caution is required because of the selfish thing..i have many more ideas on this but let me stop there.
Whenever I see a chris brown song or start talking about him, there's this joy that just warms me up...*sigh.. if i can talk about a boy i know that way, well he's in trouble, cos im sorry but he just has to love me.lol
Meanwhile, oh my gosh..but there's this boy that sings...kai!im sure u can see the danger in that..if u dont u should know i have a weakness for singing or instrument playing boys...if he can do both..well, wahala dey and if the instrument is a guitar,well o ti pari..as in shikena...#endof ;)

Another thing i've thought about or considered is locality of the bobo.lol...u shd knw im of the **** * tribe.lol.i should give you a hint,saucekid has a song about this,;)
but i seriously dnt thnk that kind of relationship works within a uni,people talk too much and the whole point of it is ruined if they dont ruin the relationship first so my acceptable radius of bobo, after much consideration, would have to be...far enough that ure not there everday but close enough that u could anytime u wanted to as in even with cash impediments, school and stuff..
..ahh school,hw does it affect,boy i like must get that its important,most likely more important than the relationship cos relationship may/may not last,we'll both move on...but u'll need ur degree always..not always but one cant afford to fail..:p

P.s.: i feel like the mood of "aston martin music" when im with boy i like..:)

<3 <3

Lazy days..

So, i havent blogged in  a while and lots have happened since but will try and remember so i can put it all up :)
Where was i when i last did this...oh thats right my christmas break,wow,thats a while..
reasons i havent been blogging..honestly..i couldnt just be arsed to..*shrug* but i read my friend's blog nd my reasons for starting in the first place started coming back to me.lol
Yeah so loads have happened and some things id like to address in my upcoming posts..flat mates,relationships,partying and somehow schl work is involved in all of them.lol

Thanks be to God,it is now spring and the sun shines beautifully everyday..it makes me so joyous!another reason to be thankful is that yes,and i say this with no shame, the term is almost over..whoop whooop :D.
One last random thing, I must put in so I never forget..is that there is kindness in the world!most of the time it feels like the bad outweighs but something makes u have hope so if u read this show kindness today that gives someone that is feeling lost hope..my experience: one day walking home from town,my groceries were proving to be too heavy for me and i kept stopping and i honestly thought about leaving them and walking away(actually no,not really) but i was really at my limit and this woman,she just had to be sent from God comes and helps me with my bags..Kindness.

and you should know ive started watching how i met your mother(himym from now on) so watch out for the references :) and it satrts now..
Its gonna be legen, wait for it,......DARY cos im back bitches!!!
Xx