Wednesday 14 December 2011

Rolling with the Punches

I am not even going to try and make excuses for me not blogging in so long because words cannot even begin to explain the laziness i have shown in this particular area of my life, not that i haven't been lazy in others too...
But i am sorry.. i have had a lot to say but really could not put fingers to keyboard.

This past week has been quite unbelievable and i'm not sure if it's in a completely good or bad way. It was meant to be a good week as it ends with the promise of the christmas holiday but no, things never go the way you plan them to, do they?

And now as i  reflect on the events that happened, i realise that we should have seen this coming..but what i realised is things go bad, the unexpected happen and when it does we react in different ways. We can question the choices we made, we can blame the people who caused the problems, we can be sad and depressed or we can accept it and roll with the punches. The last option may not be the easiest or most likely reaction we get but in my opinion it is the best thing one can do at that point in his/her life. Many things may be going wrong all at the same time but you have to recognise that c'est la vie and find a solution no matter how much that solution cost you and in my case it cost a LOT but what do you know? i'm still standing and even though i'm not doing it now, i am sure i'd laugh about it in a few eons, i kid, i joke..maybe years (hehe).

I may have got it easier than your case, you may think, i don't know but it has taught me to accept outcomes and undesirable events for what they are, stories in my history.