Friday 22 April 2011

Oh no..not the L word..

Kk..i really should blog more often..my friend keeps encouraging me so i wont let her down :)
I have soo much to talk about...but right now it'll be of love.....kk,im sure ppl think its really sappy and stuff but the truth is it is sappy but it wouldnt be love now would it,if it werent sappy, gooey and generally disgusting and annoying if you were not in it, now would it?..
My views on love at this stage of my life is really distorted you should know before i go any further cos im kind of pessimistic about it but deep down i know it exists and its wonderful nd would last forever and would be the most fantastic feeling ever..
I've been wondering recently whether its the same feeling for everyone...how can i explain..ok i have an analogy..like a headache..when ur head hurts obviously you have a headache but does it feel exactly the same when you know you have to go and get ur panadol abi 'alabukun' (#inBankyW'svoice)..like would someone might feel pounding, another sharp pain from one side to the other or someone else a combination of both..i dnt know, so would the feeling of love be the same?? guess ill never know since nobody seems particularly able to define it or explain..then again you cant really describe felings can you?...ok, im drifting but hopefully you get what i mean here
I dont know why ppl are so quick to fall in love..as far as im concerned if u have fallen in love more than once you havent fallen in love...if u are under the age of 21 you're chances of being in love (because i don't believe you can fall out of it) is like 2% cos i just think we are too selfish at this stage in our lives really..and i believe if ur love doesnt agreee with that 1 corinthians 13 verse..it isnt true..endof
..another thing i dont get is why people are in such a hurry to get married these days..ok im generalising but a few ppl close to me not older than 24 are already married..im like whoa,calm down..its nt like they are pregnant or anything o!being married is for life..why not enjoy being single before all those responsibilities come and some boys are really bastards..so i heard of this guy..oh wait sorry maybe another blog,it isnt on love..it is jor..anyhw, sha the guy cos the babe's parents said they shd wait like a year he said he cant marry her..seriously though..wtf?!if u claim ure in love isnt going to end after one year..seriously come on!!i shall rant about my views on nigerians and marriage later cos if i start...

anyhow..im really obsessed with love but right now i can wait for it to happen cos i know its narcissistic and all but im enjoying (apart from God) being the centre of my world..lol
in this blog im talking about-for lack of  a better word- sexual love but do spread platonic love around to every1 :) <3 <3